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heyhey

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on: February 10, 2013, 5:44 PM

How many shadchanim should i be meeting?

Just in my community?

All the Kesher offices?

All that I heard of?

All that exist? (getting every community list and travelling in to them)

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on: February 10, 2013, 5:48 PM

Where do I get a list of tristate area shadchanim that deal with a yeshivish crowd (long term learner boys) but who will look at my background eventho it's atypical.

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on: February 11, 2013, 12:34 AM

maybe kesher office?

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on: February 11, 2013, 12:34 AM

do you need a #?

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on: February 11, 2013, 2:36 AM

i feel very not-smart rt now, but whats kesher??

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on: February 11, 2013, 9:07 AM

Yeah I never either heard of kesher

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on: February 11, 2013, 8:49 PM

Kesher is a shidduch organization in Lakewood that has brought together a bunch (like 25) shadchanim, some famous and others 'dabbling in' type shadchanim. If you call up the office (732-276-1325), they will give you an appointment when you can come and meet all these (25 or so) shadchanim at once. the way it works is that there are a bunch of different rooms and each room has a different shadchan sitting there. Some rooms have a few shadchanim sitting there. Also, there are not so many girls that come at the same time because they give everyone appointed times to come so that it doesnt become a 'bal hagan'. Therefore there is a waiting list to actually get an appointment.

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on: February 12, 2013, 12:11 AM

thanks gold! and plz everyone no need to feel not smart!

gold- have you been there? wld you recommend it?

thanks 🙂

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on: February 12, 2013, 9:37 PM

Yes, I've been there and was actually very impressed in how professionally it was run and how everyone was treated respectfully. I would recommend it, because even though it might take a while to actually get a time slot, when you actually do go, you get to meet with a lot of shadchanim all at once.

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on: February 13, 2013, 8:16 AM

And did they all forget about you like most shadchanim? Or was it worth it?

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on: February 14, 2013, 5:43 PM

I never actually got anything from them.

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on: October 20, 2013, 8:24 PM

has anyone recently gone to kesher? any info about it? do you know any of the shadchanim there? do you still have to wait long periods of time before getting an appointment?

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on: October 20, 2013, 8:57 PM

do they only deal with lkwd boys? i'm going into lakewood soon for a little vaca...figured i can meet ppl while i'm there

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on: October 20, 2013, 10:36 PM

They mainly deal with Lakewood boys, but it is not surprising to get a suggestion from them of a boy who is not in Lakewood. If you are going to be in Lakewood you may want to call up the office sooner rather than later, because it does take a while to get an appointment with them...Good Luck

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