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Author Topic: just not "clicking"
heyhey

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Post just not "clicking"
on: April 22, 2013, 5:44 PM

In 10 words or less describe what it means when someone tells me after 5 dates or so:

"ITS JUST NOT CLICKING!!"

i just don't get it!!

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Post Re: just not "clicking"
on: April 22, 2013, 6:24 PM

It means they don't feel anything/they don't think you're compatible/it's not working for them.

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im613

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Post Re: just not "clicking"
on: April 22, 2013, 6:45 PM

Ya-it means he doesn't see it going any further.
that's so hard tho to hear that as a reason after 5 dates...

Moon

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Post Re: just not "clicking"
on: April 22, 2013, 7:32 PM

Oy I feel your pain :(! I had a guy tell me the same thing after 4 dates...
May you find the right one really soon and it should "fully click" for both of you :)!

feigy123

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Post Re: just not "clicking"
on: April 22, 2013, 8:53 PM

I think it means this http://www.inshidduchim.com/feeling-pareve/

I told it to a guy after like 9 dates, and haven't looked back (ok, I did consider looking back a couple of times, but I don't anymore)

patcha

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Post Re: just not "clicking"
on: April 23, 2013, 12:14 AM

What feigy linked.

If the other person keeps on telling you you're not clicking, you might want to meet with a dating coach.

Guest

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Post Re: just not "clicking"
on: April 30, 2013, 4:21 PM

That is very hard to hear 🙁 Probably means that he didn't notice how special you are 🙂 Hope you find the right one really soon iy"H!

rosepetal5

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Post Re: just not "clicking"
on: May 27, 2013, 11:15 AM

Could be there was just no chemistry. Of course it's painful, but it probably means you weren't right for each other. I hope you find someone you "click" with!

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