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on: November 14, 2013, 8:14 PM

Did you ever go out with a boy that you really like and have him almost say no to you? My question is should I tell him how much I like him so he'll be more likely to say yes again. Or should I just assume that if he says no it's just not meant to be?

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on: November 15, 2013, 2:20 AM

I think that it is important to know why he said no.
For some things it may be worth it and for others not.

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on: November 15, 2013, 9:16 AM

Well he first said no because "he didn't think there was enough potential" but then his Rebbi convinced him to go out again.

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on: November 15, 2013, 10:11 AM

Its a hard call cause it really sounds like hes not feeling anything.
Maybe try speaking to the shadchan
hatzlacha!

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on: November 15, 2013, 11:03 AM

it depends how many dates...many boys just want to drop after a first or second cuz they say no potential....cuz they know they have a list of girls so his rebbi suggested to continue and try again. you could tell the shadchan you had a good time and say you felt for example, personalities clicked and perhaps the shadchan would ask pointed questions and perhaps push.. sometimes boys need a nudge

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