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Author Topic: Will it ever be me??
Miriam

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I just returned from a good friends wedding and I was one of the few single girls left. Will I ever wear a white gown? Will I ever have that Kallah glow? Will I ever have that sparkling shining smile? Will I ever wear a shaitel? Will I ever be dancing in the middle surrounded by friends and family? Will there be anybody left for me to dance with? Will I ever have a chosson?

Sari

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Of course you will and there is no reason why it won't be you soon. Just keep being that upbeat girl that you are and keep yourself young and spiffy! Nobody wants to be around an old maid so keep yourself looking good and work hard to be that all around happy girl that you know you can be.

Bracha

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When I feel this way, I just pour out my heart to Hashem - השלך על ד' יהבך והוא יכלכלך - " Throw you problems on Hashem and He'll support you." I tell Hashem that I just can't bear it anymore and He should take care of my problems. This always makes me feel better. Hatzlacha!

Bayla

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Thank you Brocha, if it works for you it is for sure worth a try for me! Sometimes I feel down, and when that happens I call a friend and we go out together to hang out. All of us single girls should know that it is only normal to have our ups and downs during dating. Sometimes it can get tough and when you think it can't get tougher it does. But one other things that we must remember is that iyH this stage that we are in now in is only a temporary state. Researching guys, dating, getting rejected, or being the one to tell him no when he was so into you can be quite stressful but if we would only stop and remember that this is only a difficult step to get us to a higher and better place we will change our mindset to a positive state of mind and realize that it is only a means to reach our goal. Anyways, sorry for babbling but I really just want to help others who are also struggling in this difficult Parsha.

1Israel1

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I personally appreciate people that are REAL. Thank you for your honesty and may Hashem help you find the strength that you surely posses to overcome this great challenge!

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