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Anyone else recently find themselves obligated to attend a wedding of an 18 year old (cousin in my case) that they really didn't want to go to???

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hmmm. no i wasnt in that situation. 18 is very young, and uncommon. must be tough. what do you plan to do? when is it??

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Just look at it like an abnormal thing, because it is!

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Nah, my cousin is chassidish so it's pretty normal there. And I had to go...and dance with everyone... including the kalla when she came to me. I didn't know what to do with myself... it was so hard... I better get bigtime Schar for being M'sameach the kallah and not embarrassing her by turning away. It was REALLY hard.
Going home alone at the end of the wedding was just heartbreaking for me...

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I agree. It is a very difficult thing to do. When I am in a situation like this ( a younger neighbor, relative, friend...) I try to tell myself that I wouldn't want to marry her Chassan, so at least I should be happy that she is! It's still tough but it helps.

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Quite frankly, I don't understand what her being 18 has to do with anything. How is that more aggravating? If anything, when my 18 year old cousin was engaged I felt sorry for her, which I shouldn't have, different strokes and all that.

It doesn't usually have to do with the kallah, it has to do with everyone else and their comments. The kallah has to liver her life, and you have to live yours.

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Quote from Princess Lea on January 24, 2013, 1:25 PM
Quite frankly, I don't understand what her being 18 has to do with anything. How is that more aggravating? If anything, when my 18 year old cousin was engaged I felt sorry for her, which I shouldn't have, different strokes and all that.

It doesn't usually have to do with the kallah, it has to do with everyone else and their comments. The kallah has to liver her life, and you have to live yours.

cldnt have agreed with you more!!! WELL SAID

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