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sem613

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Post anyone else find it EXAUSTING
on: November 26, 2013, 12:01 AM

I know I'm very lucky that BH I'm getting boys redt to me. but each time:
spend hours freaking out uproductivly
then stress about work and do a mountain of it
then get all dressed up and make up etc
then go out
then come back and have to think about it(and of course debreif your roommates who are on top of you) and try to fall asleep, with your mind racing, to call the shadchan in the morning.

and the worst is when you first go out relativly late in the evening b/c you first had an entire day of class, with every break spent doing the work youre not getting done that night.
so youve been on task busy for 12 hours, and then you have to go look happy to be spending 3 hours out talking.

and most of the time, it goes nowhere

sorry for the pessemistic rant. can you tell I've had a long hard day?

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shembyu

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on: November 26, 2013, 12:07 AM

When I have long breaks between boys, I tell myself what a bracha it is that I don't have to do everything you mentioned.
Quite frankly, whenever I'm busy - on top of everything else - I cant sleep
Its super draining and exhausting
It should be a Kaparah that gets us all married very soon. Amen!

basmelech

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Post Re: anyone else find it EXAUSTING
on: November 26, 2013, 5:28 PM

Amen! 🙂

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Post Re: anyone else find it EXAUSTING
on: December 18, 2013, 6:54 PM

I was like that in the beginning. Now I know it's a waste of time since I generally never see the guy agen

basmelech

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Post Re: anyone else find it EXAUSTING
on: December 18, 2013, 8:23 PM

Hey e.r. dont give up! Im sure theres someone special out there for you! May you be zocheh to meet him very soon iy"H! 🙂

sem613

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Post Re: anyone else find it EXAUSTING
on: December 18, 2013, 9:48 PM

want to explain your comment eyeroller? you mean you dont bother with the whole getting dressed up anymore?

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Post Re: anyone else find it EXAUSTING
on: December 19, 2013, 8:02 PM

No it's just not on my mind all day and I don't get nervous anymore, that's all

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