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devorah123

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on: February 2, 2014, 3:14 PM

Does anyone else feel like shidduchim brings out a bipolar side to them? lol! One minute I'm totally over a guy, the next, I'm thinking about him again. One minute I'm totally fine with being single, the next, I'm dying to get married. One minute I have this complete unwavering sense of bitachon, the next, it's starting to wane and I'm wondering if it's even possible for me to find "the one"...etc. Am I the only one like this?? I guess this is what they mean when they say ur finally "settled" when your married!

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on: February 2, 2014, 3:18 PM

i totally understand and feel the same way many times...sometimes totally ok with no dates for a while, but then i get rlly frustrated that i'm not getting myself any closer...one minute total calm, next minute frustration. i think its normal. as long as its not taking over ur life...

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on: February 4, 2014, 10:22 AM

Saaaaaame here, exactly.

iThink

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on: February 4, 2014, 6:36 PM

So relatable.

CS

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on: July 10, 2014, 10:27 PM

Totally know what you're talking about - just I'd call it mood swings as opposed to bipolar but yea! I consider myself normal so that makes you normal too 😉

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on: July 17, 2014, 4:38 PM

ha! B'H im not the only one. Yes, i am also like that. At times i feel totally comfortable thinking that im still young, i could get married at 25+. no big deal. I"ll have my degree, job and some money. Then other times im ,like totally freaking out saying, "25?!how can i get married at 25? i neeeed to find someone now! i"ll never get married......" Oh my the drama. It gives me a headache sometimes. Cant wait till we pass this phase imyh soon.

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on: August 8, 2014, 5:05 PM

devorah123 sounds like we are exactly the same person! It's such a horrible feeling to be thrown between these different emotions. One minute I'm totally ok being single, the next I'm freaking out. I think I switch off weekly lol!

But I don't think that once you're married you are finally "settled". Yes, your shidduchim worries are B"H over- but then you begin to worry about other things. Life is like a big race- to get married, have kids, buy a house etc. We are always looking at the next step. When we are married we may be worried about money, jobs, school, kids. We should be working on our bitachon and emunah now- so we are ready to really be "settled" when we are iy"H all married!

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