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Author Topic: Shmiras Eynayim/Tznius
Bracha613

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Post Shmiras Eynayim/Tznius
on: June 19, 2013, 8:45 PM

In general, do you think it's harder for boys to be makpid on Shmiras Eynayim
or do you think it's it harder for girls to be Makpid on Tznius.

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Post Re: Shmiras Eynayim/Tznius
on: June 19, 2013, 8:49 PM

I don't know, as I've always been a girl.
But I definitely struggle with Shmiras Einayim, Oznayim, and tznius.

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Post Re: Shmiras Eynayim/Tznius
on: June 19, 2013, 10:51 PM

They are both very hard.for some ppl tzinus is harder than for others.& it goes both ways, the more u work on urself the easier it gets. But remember always strive to become a better person.:)

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Post Re: Shmiras Eynayim/Tznius
on: June 19, 2013, 11:03 PM

You can't compare them because they are both incredibly difficult nisyonas that are unique to that gender.

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Post Re: Shmiras Eynayim/Tznius
on: June 20, 2013, 12:08 AM

Quote from TryToDoWhatsRight on June 19, 2013, 11:03 PM
You can't compare them because they are both incredibly difficult nisyonas that are unique to that gender.

FTR, girls are also supposed be careful about shmras einayim...

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Post Re: Shmiras Eynayim/Tznius
on: June 20, 2013, 11:51 AM

Quote from thinkingBYgirl on June 20, 2013, 12:08 AM

Quote from TryToDoWhatsRight on June 19, 2013, 11:03 PM
You can't compare them because they are both incredibly difficult nisyonas that are unique to that gender.

FTR, girls are also supposed be careful about shmras einayim...

Yes girls do have to be careful about shmiras einayim. I think what ttdwr was saying is that each one is unique to that gender because as girls shmiras einayim regarding walking in the street is i think not as diffucult as it is for a boy. So getting dressed in a tzenuah way and for a boy to be very careful with shmiras einayim is hard for us to decide which one is harder. Since we only have the strong yetzer hara for one (tznius) and we cant fully understand the other way around.

ttdwr is that what you were trying to say? if not please correct me.

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Post Re: Shmiras Eynayim/Tznius
on: June 20, 2013, 12:01 PM

Quote from basmelech on June 20, 2013, 11:51 AM

Quote from thinkingBYgirl on June 20, 2013, 12:08 AM

Quote from TryToDoWhatsRight on June 19, 2013, 11:03 PM
You can't compare them because they are both incredibly difficult nisyonas that are unique to that gender.

FTR, girls are also supposed be careful about shmras einayim...

Yes girls do have to be careful about shmiras einayim. I think what ttdwr was saying is that each one is unique to that gender because as girls shmiras einayim regarding walking in the street is i think not as diffucult as it is for a boy. So getting dressed in a tzenuah way and for a boy to be very careful with shmiras einayim is hard for us to decide which one is harder. Since we only have the strong yetzer hara for one (tznius) and we cant fully understand the other way around.

ttdwr is that what you were trying to say? if not please correct me.

Yes Basmelech, that is what I was trying to say. But thinkingBYgirl, you're right, girls do also have to be careful about shmiras einayim.

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