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Author Topic: Is this normal??
ME

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Post Is this normal??
on: December 1, 2014, 3:17 AM

Yes, of course everyone wants to find their zivug and get married but I'm finding that more and more over time- what really gets me is that I want to be a mommy! Yes, I want that relationship, that person who will be experiencing everything with you, who you will communicate with and share and work hard and grow BUT right now all I feel is this longing to be a mommy. Every time i hold my friends baby or play with my many nieces and nephews- no matter their age all I feel is: THIS is what I want. THIS is what I'm waiting for.
Yes, Ofc I want a husband- and daven that we all find our zivugs (is that the right way to say it?) at the right time- but to me the ultimate prize is the amazing miraculous gift of a child. Just wondering if I'm the only one or its somewhat normal. Like I feel like I'm passed the stage of being ready to get married- I've moved on. Does this make any sense?
(Please excuse my atrocious grammar- hard to edit on a phone or think when you can't fall asleep...)

sem613

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on: December 1, 2014, 8:54 PM

good to know im not the only one like that 🙂

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on: December 1, 2014, 9:36 PM

On rare occasions I get a similar feeling to that but for the most part not really. I think it depends if your into kids or not, I've never been especially into young children but with my own it would definitely be special.

basmelech

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on: December 4, 2014, 11:09 PM

Yes I know exactly what you mean! You just like wrote my thoughts. I have babysat so many times, and I would really love to be able to watch my very own kids! IyH by all of us very soon! 🙂

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on: December 9, 2014, 4:21 PM

i had to check the name of the original poster to check if i had written it!! these are the exact feelings i just expressed to a friend of mine

bitachon

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on: December 10, 2014, 12:51 AM

weird i just said that 2 someone last night and today!

ME

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on: December 10, 2014, 2:01 PM

thanks guys! glad to know i'm not the only one!! 🙂 hopefully one day soon we will all merit to get married and have children!

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