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Post Should I tell?
on: August 28, 2013, 10:09 PM

I asked a friend what she is looking for in a shidduch, and of course she wanted to know why, so I told her I had an idea but wasn't sure it was the right type, and she sent me her resume, and I said I'd think about it. Then I spoke to the boy's cousin about it, and she asked the boy's sister, and she said she didn't think it was the type - family wise, which was what i was thinking. Now - should I tell her? I know when people tell me they have an idea and don't get back I'm curious and uncomfortable around them even if they don't say names. But what do you think? Will she be insulted? Not a close friend but i see her fairly often.

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Post Re: Should I tell?
on: August 28, 2013, 10:53 PM

If it were me I would want to know.
It always makes me feel better to know that its not shayach then to wonder if thrs still a possibility
Then im just grateful when i see the person instead of curios (and waiting to see if theyll say anything about it)

dazzleme21

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on: August 29, 2013, 12:22 AM

i say give her an answer either way.

hittheroof

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on: August 29, 2013, 3:55 PM

Don't see anything wrong with tell her, I spoke to the other side it wouldn't work, i'll keep you mind... Better than leaving her hanging!

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on: August 29, 2013, 8:21 PM

I agree

dance4ever

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Post Re: Should I tell?
on: August 29, 2013, 10:51 PM

good choice- its always better to get feedback - either way...

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