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Cherry

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on: May 27, 2013, 1:13 AM

so in the story, Donny just bought Dina a gift...

In real life never happened to me.. but it can be quite common...

my question is what happens if they break up...

-what happens to those gifts - are they returned??

has it ever happened to anyone here??

dancer90

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on: May 27, 2013, 8:46 AM

A guy once got me something with tickets at an arcade place and i threw it out after we broke up... If its something more exp like a nice necklace u just keep it

Cherry

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on: May 27, 2013, 7:35 PM

Why would it be right to keep it? And what will make it a wrong thing not to give back? I wanna hear everyone's opinions on this.

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on: May 27, 2013, 7:40 PM

If you break up with a guy, you shouldn't give back any gifts unless he asks for it back, or it's an engagement ring. Whether you decide you want to keep it (i.e. it could be a reminder) that's up to you. But as a general rule, if you get a gift, it's a gift. It now belongs to you.

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on: May 27, 2013, 11:42 PM

Quote from TryToDoWhatsRight on May 27, 2013, 7:40 PM
If you break up with a guy, you shouldn't give back any gifts unless he asks for it back, or it's an engagement ring. Whether you decide you want to keep it (i.e. it could be a reminder) that's up to you. But as a general rule, if you get a gift, it's a gift. It now belongs to you.

Well said. 🙂

Cherry

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on: May 28, 2013, 11:45 AM

Ttdwr & dancer thnks 🙂 I'm interested to know if anyone has the opinion tht gifts should be given back. Has anyone ever had a guy ask her for some gift back after breaking up?

atararox

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on: May 28, 2013, 11:55 AM

Cherry did I comment on this thread? I don't see it.

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el

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on: May 28, 2013, 2:40 PM

Dont worry atararox, we can't either see it 😛 you didnt!

Cherry

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on: May 28, 2013, 4:43 PM

Quote from atararox on May 28, 2013, 11:55 AM
Cherry did I comment on this thread? I don't see it.

Omg. Cant believe I did tht. Lol. I just changed it. 😉

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on: May 28, 2013, 5:40 PM

Quote from Cherry on May 28, 2013, 11:45 AM
Ttdwr & dancer thnks 🙂 I'm interested to know if anyone has the opinion tht gifts should be given back. Has anyone ever had a guy ask her for some gift back after breaking up?

I once asked for my cookies back that I had baked for him and given him.

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on: May 28, 2013, 5:42 PM

No need to be facetious. 🙂

laykay

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on: May 28, 2013, 9:42 PM

Yum sounds delish

honey

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on: June 2, 2013, 10:51 PM

Thank HaShem it never happened to me but I would probably keep it. Listen one you get a gift it's yours just because a guy you dated gave it to you doesn't mean it's not a gift or it's contaminated I think keep it enjoy it and forget about him. Don't worry

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on: November 23, 2013, 6:20 PM

Most gifts I have kept, I think that's the standard...but I once had this absolutely horrible situation with I guy I broke up with who demanded his gifts back in a not so nice way...we did not live in the same city so I mailed it to him and then it was returned because he gave me the wrong apartment #...so so awkward 🙁

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