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dazzleme21

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on: September 10, 2013, 6:59 PM

i dont know if this has a real mekor but it sounds interesting... and i know ppl who have done it...
if anyone finds out a source feel free to share!

From: The Ohel Sara Amen Group ohelsaraamen@gmail.com>
Date: September 24, 2012 7:38:59 PM EDT
To: undisclosed-recipients:;
Subject: Fwd: copied from Rabbanit Yemima Mizrachi shiur -segula for shidduch

Please send out to "Ohel Sara" for all those in need of shidduchim.

Listen to the moving words of Rabbi Yehonatan Eybeschutz: לפני ערב יום כיפור, מתרבה מרה שחורה ובכיות בבתי ישראל, כי השטן - יש לו שליטה כל שי"ן סמ"ך דל"ת ימים, כמנין "דילי" ‐

Before Yom Kippur, melancholy and crying increase among Jewish households, because the Satan has control 364 days of the year, according to the g’matriya of his name. But the 365th day is Yom Kippur. On that day there’ no Satan and no evil inclination. That’s why he works so hard against us this time of year –he knows he’s about to disappear for a day. ואז, יודע שביום הכיפרים אין לו שלטון ורוצה להשרות בעם ישראל מרה שחורה, לפני שפורש מהם, כי יודע שעיקר התשובה הוא להיות בשמחה ‐

For he knows that on Yom Kippur he has no control, and he wishes to cast upon Israel melancholy before he departs; for he knows the essence of T’shuva is to be happy. 1 Such words. You’ll feel that fall. What do you do? If it weren’t Rabbi Yehonatan Eybeschutz, I don’t know how I’d give you this Segula: Only eating a lot on Erev Yom Kippur removes the melancholy that the Satan wants to cause you. So eat as many meals as possible. Seven meals, according to the Kabbalists. I can’t describe how many e‐mails I got this year about that Segula.

If there’s a Segula about which I can say, “It works!” it’s this one.

Whoever eats seven meals on the day before Yom Kippur, may say as she eats them, “This is to correspond to the sheva brachot I’ll have this year.” Many women did this and got married. It’s a Segula.
You don’t have to (so whoever wants to remain single – zai gesund…).But every class at which I said this in the past week, people have raised their hands and said, “Rabbanit, I did that and got married that year.” I’ve never seen a Segula for which I’ve gotten this much feedback and comments. It’s real. If you’re single and want to get married this year. If you’re the mother of single girls and want them to get married this year. If you want your sister to get married, and she won’t use this Segula, eat seven meals and have her in mind.

Seven meals on Erev Yom Kippur – how should they be eaten? It means seven times Netialt Yadayim and Birkat HaMazon. There’s no way around it… a suggestion ‐ take some bread with a little bit of spread or sandwich guts such as tuna – just an olive’s volume – eat it and say Birkat HaMazon. כל האוכל בתשיעי כאילו צם בתשיעי ובעשירי ‐

Whoever eats on the ninth is as if he has fasted on the ninth and tenth of Tishrei. 2 An explicit passage in the Gemara. And you can start the night before. You can start the previous evening with two or three meals, and the following day you only have four more to do, including the final meal before the fast. Divide it up as you wish (and no, it doesn’t have to be tuna…) Seven meals, seven Brachot. By doing those seven meals properly you fix all of the forbidden eating you’ve done – eating without a Bracha, or without kosher certification. It fixes Adam’s sin, which was forbidden eating. It’s medicine for the evil inclination. Just trust me. וסעודות אלה מתקנות יותר מתפילות ‐ These meals fix more than the prayers do promises the Matteh Aharon.

1 Rabbi Yehonatan Eybeschutz, Yaarot D’ R a b b a n i t Y e m i m a Mi z r a c h i Y O M K I P P U R 2

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on: September 10, 2013, 7:42 PM

my question about this is would it not be a bracha sh'eyno tzricha to keep washing and bentching with the intention of eating again shortly after?

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on: September 10, 2013, 7:59 PM

idk mayb do it through out the day so ull be hungry at diff. times

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on: September 10, 2013, 9:13 PM

how can you eat so much in a day??????

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on: September 10, 2013, 9:56 PM

and it says you can eat a few of the meals the night before bec its still erev yom kippur so its rlly not that much

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on: September 10, 2013, 9:56 PM

i think im going to try it ,it x hurt to

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on: September 10, 2013, 9:58 PM

chaykie if you read the whole thing it also says you have to eat a kezayis which is not a whole meal ,so its not so much

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on: September 10, 2013, 11:30 PM

Something to keep in mind if you do it - You need two kzaysim, not one, when you wash. So that's a whole piece of bread (middle of loaf). In challah that's about half a medium roll.

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on: September 10, 2013, 11:39 PM

dazzleme21, ur right it doesn't hurt not to- worse case scenario, you have more food in ur system when the fast comes in!

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on: September 11, 2013, 12:36 AM

exactly! 🙂

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on: September 11, 2013, 12:40 AM

thanx for sharing that info life123 i forgot about that

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on: September 11, 2013, 7:46 AM

It definitely doesn't hurt... I think I might try this too. Ya never know!! 😀 Thanks for posting dazzleme!

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on: September 11, 2013, 9:44 AM

I did this last year! I washed and bentched 7 times, ate a half of sandwich and had in mind to correspond to sheva brachos and here I am still single 🙁 I guess u can try it if u want. If u wake up at a decent hour it's not so hard to space the meals apart normally. Also the seuda Erev Yom Kippur is counted as one! Hatzlacha! Hope u guys have better results!

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on: September 11, 2013, 10:14 AM

Laykay- Amen ( if you try it this yr. hope this yr will have better results for you as well!! ) I told my friend about it- and I got all excited saying I'm for sure gonna do this, and of course she reminded me that no matter what it's really when Hashem wants us too and not to get my hopes up lol.... So yeah, but I'll try it anyways!

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on: September 11, 2013, 11:55 AM

I think teshuva, tefillah, and tzedaka on erev Yom Kippur are also a segulah to find one's zivug...just saying. But I don't have a source to back that up 🙂

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on: September 11, 2013, 2:35 PM

Quote from hello on September 11, 2013, 11:55 AM
I think teshuva, tefillah, and tzedaka on erev Yom Kippur are also a segulah to find one's zivug...just saying. But I don't have a source to back that up 🙂

Love that post!

Anyway, to the person who wrote that eating too much can't harm you, worst thing is you have more food in your stomach... eating tons before a fast is not necessarily the best thing for you, from a practical standpoint. I mean, it's definitely a mitzvah to eat (we know that) but not to eat huge amounts. If you eat a lot, your body "gets used" to it and then you're hungrier the next day. I know that when I go to bed on a full stomach, I wake up famished! But, if I go to bed more to the hungry side, I wake up fine. When I'm hungry after Kol Nidrei, I consider it a good sign 🙂

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on: September 11, 2013, 5:39 PM

I tried it last year..and I'm still single:)! but I guess it doesn't hurt to try it..

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on: September 11, 2013, 7:30 PM

ur welcome daysfan24 ! 😀 im sorry to hear for whoever said it didnt work 😕 but i think im going to try it anyway. i posted a tehillim forum for yom kippur i got in another email each person only says one perek on yom kippur and thyre doing it for shiudduchim the people that are making the tehillim group.there are a few slots left so if you want to join check it out

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on: September 15, 2013, 7:11 PM

anyone do it?? must admit i did not... could not even think abt eating so much food...

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on: September 15, 2013, 7:23 PM

Hey I missed this! But is that really what we want - to get married THIS year (sorta makes me feel the end of the sentence is who cares to who)?

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on: September 15, 2013, 11:25 PM

I did it last year...still single...

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on: September 15, 2013, 11:29 PM

Anyone hear of the segula- buying a new knife for shidduchim or parnassah? A relative of mine bought a new knife last year for Rosh Hashana for parnassah and her husband got a new job after Succos!

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on: September 16, 2013, 5:57 PM

I tried doing it- only made it through four times ( including seudah) I also did it with whole wheat the big slices, so it was even more filling, and I just couldn't do anymore. Curious if anyone made it through all seven meals!

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on: September 16, 2013, 8:09 PM

YES I DID!!! I made it through all 7 meals!!!! you were allowed to have some the night before but i ended up only having one the night before and 6 the next day! Im not the only one a few of my friends also did so through out the day we would text each other what meal are u up to?? Im up to my 5th meal.....It really wasnt bad I left enough room in between that I was able to eat and not feel stuffed when it came to the next meal! and bh I had the best fast ever!! I was barely hungry at all! I think it really helped ! my friends that did it told me they also had a really good fast and they think it was because of it!! so well see what happens if it will work! One of my married friends told me that her father in law who is sefardi eats 7 meals every erev yom kippur! I thought that was interesting so must be for something good! o and btw I had in mind that it should be the right time and boy this year not just to get married .Sarala to answer ur comment

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on: September 17, 2013, 2:58 PM

I also did it!! i didnt do any the nt before, so the next day i just had one slice of bread and bentched by each "meal" and that's all i ate the whole day. i must admit that by the 6th meal i was so full but it wud be crazy to give up then 🙂 and like dazzleme21 said: it was such a good fast this year; i really think it's cuz of the 7 spread out meals the day before. iy"H this year should be the right time for everyone, whether u did this segula or not!

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on: September 18, 2013, 2:40 AM

🙂 thats good that u were also able to do it! and that u prob had a good fast bec. of it!! 🙂 amen kyh !!

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