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yitti

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Post Would You Rather #8
on: June 3, 2013, 9:11 PM

Would you rather if the Shadchen reddt the Shidduch to the boy first (like the way it's done)
Or
Would you rather it was reddt to you first?

feigy123

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Post Re: Would You Rather #8
on: June 3, 2013, 9:21 PM

Depends. If he says yes, then I'd rather know first. But if he says no, then I'd rather he just say no and never know.

patcha

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Post Re: Would You Rather #8
on: June 3, 2013, 9:30 PM

agree with feigy

Avigail

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Post Re: Would You Rather #8
on: June 3, 2013, 9:31 PM

I would rather if it was always redt to me first. Then I might get a list 😀 😀 😀 😀 and I wouldn't feel so desperate.

in the gap

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Post Re: Would You Rather #8
on: June 3, 2013, 11:31 PM

I would rather get redt to first as then I don't feel like a nebach who no one is interested in, 😀 and I can decide if I think the boy is good for me.

feigy123

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Post Re: Would You Rather #8
on: June 3, 2013, 11:43 PM

Quote from in the gap on June 3, 2013, 11:31 PM
I would rather get redt to first as then I don't feel like a nebach who no one is interested in, 😀 and I can decide if I think the boy is good for me.

That's interesting.

I guess I was more thinking about feeling like a nebach when I repeatedly say yes and then they say they'll think about it and put me on the list etc.

basmelech

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Post Re: Would You Rather #8
on: June 4, 2013, 12:08 AM

I would rather the boy gets redt first. Why bother with so much checking out if the other side might say no before the first date? 😉

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Post Re: Would You Rather #8
on: June 4, 2013, 2:40 PM

redt to me first. I hate the waiting. (Like when I know someone thought of a boy for me)

feigy123

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Post Re: Would You Rather #8
on: June 4, 2013, 2:46 PM

Quote from TryToDoWhatsRight on June 4, 2013, 2:40 PM
redt to me first. I hate the waiting. (Like when I know someone thought of a boy for me)

Doesn't being redt to you first mean more waiting? I mean, the boy might say yes, might say no, and might say, well maybe one day we'll see I don't know.

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tsRight

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Post Re: Would You Rather #8
on: June 4, 2013, 4:31 PM

I meant that when someone thought of a boy for me and I hear nothing. I don't know if they followed through so I can't get my "yes" in.

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Post Re: Would You Rather #8
on: June 4, 2013, 4:32 PM

At least then I know he knows how I feel, so I'm that much closer to my answer. Hopefully affirmative!! 🙂

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