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patcha

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Post Would You Rather #13
on: June 10, 2013, 1:19 PM

Would you rather marry a man who was incredibly handsome, debonair, stylish, and or a man who was brilliant, educated, charismatic, and extremely articulate? Which combination of the two would you prefer? (obviously these coexist in a few guys, and we'd all go for someone who had both, but for the purposes of the hypothetical) 🙂

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Post Re: Would You Rather #13
on: June 10, 2013, 1:59 PM

I dunno what debonair means, so I'll skip it.

Is it the kind of thing that if you don't know what it is, then you aren't it?

patcha

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on: June 10, 2013, 2:03 PM

I actually wasn't sure what it meant, so I just googled it: Confident, stylish, and charming.
More in depth: deb·o·nair also deb·o·naire (db-nâr)
adj.
1. Suave; urbane.
2. Affable; genial.
3. Carefree and gay; jaunty.
[Middle English debonaire, gracious, kindly, from Old French, from de bon aire, of good lineage or disposition : de, of (from Latin d; see de-) + bon, bonne, good (from Latin bonus; see deu-2 in Indo-European roots) + aire, nest, family; see aerie.]

Yeah, I think someone can be all that without knowing the word. 🙂

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on: June 10, 2013, 2:24 PM

I would prefer the brilliant, articulate one.

basmelech

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Post Re: Would You Rather #13
on: June 10, 2013, 2:25 PM

Quote from patcha on June 10, 2013, 1:19 PM
a man who was brilliant, educated, charismatic, and extremely articulate

I would choose this one. 🙂

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Post Re: Would You Rather #13
on: June 11, 2013, 3:34 PM

Definitely the "brilliant, charismatic, and extremely articulate" man! 🙂 Any man who is too suave and very good looking stands a good chance of being sefl-absorbed and not having very good middos.

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on: June 11, 2013, 6:55 PM

Quote from TryToDoWhatsRight on June 11, 2013, 3:34 PM
Definitely the "brilliant, charismatic, and extremely articulate" man! 🙂 Any man who is too suave and very good looking stands a good chance of being sefl-absorbed and not having very good middos.

I think the self-absorbed and middos problem can actually go for both. Someone brilliant and charismatic can be that way too c"v.
I chose it cause i like smart and charismatic people. Gashmiyus wise that is my natural attraction more so than good looking and suave. 😉

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on: June 11, 2013, 8:49 PM

That's true, but I feel like looks more so, because someone who is good looking will be constantly reminded of that fact by stares, comments and the like. Their ego soars higher every time. Someone who is smart - less so. They'll get more respect, but they're usually less superficial, and that generally translates as someone who is less self-absorbed.

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Post Re: Would You Rather #13
on: June 13, 2013, 3:41 PM

" a man who was brilliant, educated, charismatic, and extremely articulate "
Definitely him. The other guy sounds too good-looking to be willing to marry me. 🙂

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